Saturday, February 8, 2014

For Better or for Worse, Fred Flintstone

When I started writing again, I made a promise that first and foremost I would write that which was on my heart first, then delve in to the little trivialities that others may seem to find as funny as I do.  Most of the time, it is never too deep or weepy, and almost always it contains some observational humor that my odd and very twisted sense of humor finds to be utterly hysterical.  Again I stress that these are things that “I” find to be funny.  Often, they are incriminating to a point and show a sense of absurdity, which generally is my reaction.  However, me relaying the story of what happened last night, February 7, 2014, at 8:47p.m. is simply nothing more than an out of shape oaf, relaying a self-incriminating story that had a much funnier outcome , than could have been.

Have you ever been somewhere and had something so exciting happen, that you forget where you are and what you are doing?  You seem to lose all faculties and can concentrate only on whatever that may be.  It could be finding out that one of your children won a special game or award.  Possibly it’s realizing that unexpectedly you have come into some type of a windfall that is truly a welcome blessing.  It may even be the results from a meeting that went extremely well; ten times better than you expected, causing you to almost jump out of your skin until you can tell someone.  This is exactly what happened to me last night.  As we were finishing up our work for the day, the owner of my company called me into his office for a private meeting, while the other employees were completing reports and securing the office.  We met for quite a while and the meeting was a two way street.  We talked of his expectations and what he was looking for from my employees and I told him what I needed to complete the job at hand, thus the results were better than he was expecting them to be.   We talked of leadership, direction and the payoff he could expect from enacting my policies.  As I walked out of the meeting, feeling quite emboldened and excited at the prospects of such, I could think of nothing other than calling Vicki to share the great news.  I got on the interstate with a great cup of coffee, with a little cream, from PJ’s and pointed the horse to the barn in a rapid fashion. 

As many of you know, who share the cellular connection that is Cspire , the reception on I10 within a mile or two of the Mississippi-Louisiana line is at best, sketchy, and at worst, nonexistent.  In my childlike exuberance in trying to convey an oral summary of the minutes of my meeting, I dropped the call three times and when the call was not dropped, all Vicki got from my yelling at the receiver was “Johnny Cochran is mooning a tent in a van…” not my eloquent words, which were “John Baldwin is 100%, enacting my plan.”  I should have known right then and there to calm myself a little; especially when the response to my next question regarding what’s for dinner was “Mick Jagger Lake and a fake tomato” not the more accurate “hamburger steak and baked potato” that was actually on the menu.  I drove the remaining thirty-eight miles like a NASCAR driver qualifying for the pole at Daytona.  I pulled in the driveway and not thirty seconds later, did Vicki and Anna pull in beside me from the farm.  As Anna ran toward me screaming “Daddy, Daddy” to give me a big hug, I leapt from the driver seat of my old beater truck and embraced my baby girl.  We exchanged pleasantries on the driveway for a few seconds, and she went in the house to feed Cooper, my English Bulldog. 

Vicki emerged from the back driver side of the car and proceeded up the ridiculous incline that is my driveway, between the SUV and my pickup.  Not wanting to waste a minute of time in telling Vicki my great news; I leaned back into the truck to grab my briefcase in the seat and my journal, which was really a landmine, lying on the dashboard.  In my excitement, as I hurriedly had jumped from the running truck to greet Anna, I had failed to completely turn off the key.  I quickly grabbed for the journal on the dash, as Vicki approached the tailgate of the truck, all of our mail in her right hand with her iPhone and her purse in the left hand.  With the dexterity of the Hobbit and the grace of a newborn colt, I stumbled in the cab and knocked the shifter from Park, into some other gear that definitely was not Park.  The truck shot backwards as I was climbing out onto the running board and I was stricken with a shocked paralysis that caused me to pause for a second.  As the truck gained uncontrolled speed in reverse, I heard Vicki scream Nolon! Nolon!” While this only happened in a matter of seconds, it played out like a half-hour episode of The Benny Hill Show.  

As the truck sped past Vicki, the open driver door from which I was hanging slammed into her arms as she was making some futile attempt to stop the two-ton rocket.  The mail and all of the other contents flew from her hands and littered the base of our driveway and the gutter of the street.  She was able to keep her feet, but looked on in horror, screaming only my name, as my feet bounced beneath the running boards as I was being dragged to oblivion, underneath the running boards.  I was groping the steering wheel; at the 7 o’clock position with every bit of strength I could muster in my left hand, I through the gear shifter fruitlessly into Park with my right hand and hopelessly grasped for the brake pedal, which was just out of reach.   I looked like one of those tight Wrangler jean-wearing cowboys, throwing his free arm about as he holds on to the rope encircling the torso of a bull for dear life with the other.  Somehow in the fray, after having my flailing feet beaten to a pulp, I started to run with the truck; my feet imitating the running movement of a cartoon character winding up for a hasty exit, stage left.  The truck hit the curb opposite my driveway, and thankfully slowed as it careened up the incline of my neighbors yard, narrowly missing an oak tree and the master bedroom, as it came to an unclimactic halt.  There was complete silence surrounding us in the street, and the only sounds I heard were those of the dinging warning bell because the door was open and the keys were in the ignition; the air blowing with a whistling sound from the dash broken air-conditioning vents; the muffled sounds of an ESPN radio broadcast and the clicking of the hazard lights, flashing the two green arrows, pointing in opposite directions on the instrument cluster.

As I remained glued in a sideways fetal position, hand throbbing from it’s grip on the steering wheel; I realized I was breathless, as if I had just run a desert marathon with someone’s hand covering my mouth and nose.  I looked up through the windshield and saw Vicki leaning over the scratched black hood of the Escalade, face buried and her arms cradling her head.  With my legs having the consistency of warm jelly, I climbed authoritatively into the driver seat, turned off the flashers, lowered the driver window and started the truck.  It roared to life as if nothing had just happened and slowly proceeded out of the flowerbed, across the street, and back up the steep incline of my driveway.  I turned of the truck, this time removing the key, as I heard the da-nah-nah, da nah-nah of the ESPN station’s jingle.  I sat there staring at the garage doors silently for at least two minutes.  After I had caught my breath and my composure was somewhat restored, I called out for Vicki.  With visions in my head of what might have happened, and recollections of exactly 8:42 on the morning of September 15th, 2008, when I was thrown onto the tracks of my bulldozer and run over; I began to laugh.  Vicki struggled to walk the ten feet to where I was sitting and fell against the dirty driver door of the truck.  I laughed as I said, “Now that’s something I bet you want forget!”  She began to sob uncontrollably and shouted that I could have been killed.  I began to belly laugh at that point and said, “Yeah, but what a way to go.  What did it look like?”  With an anxious stare from her eyes and tears pouring down her face, all she could say was, “I felt so helpless, I couldn’t do anything to stop it.” And in the most pitiful voice, a combination of fearful speech and all out crying, she said “Your little feet were caught under the running board, and you looked like Fred Flintstone trying to stop the truck.” 


With that being said, I could no longer control my laughter and rolled onto the ground from the seat.  It was at that moment I realized I was going to be a bit sore and felt the pain above my knees, which was more like carpet burn than anything.  I hobbled to the house, made it to the kitchen and leaned against the bar.  Vicki had preceded me into the house and was staring into her hands as she sat at the kitchen table.  Mortified and visibly shaken I asked if she were alright.  She said yes, as she was desperately removing her wedding rings from her already swelling hands from the impact of the door.  We made our way to the bedroom and changed into our bedclothes.  She had settled down quite a bit and was wearing the signature blue silk gown that I find so comforting to see her wearing.  She once again asked the rhetorical question, “Do you realize that you could have been killed, tonight?”  All I could say in my retort was, “Do YOU realize that you referred to these planks as  ‘my little feet’ and compared me to Fred Flintstone?”  It was at that exact moment when we both came to the conclusion that we were both okay and realized that in our house, for better or worse, takes on a whole new meaning.

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